There are a handful of things that you can do to try to improve your dating success. Many people have for years tried several different things and spent many hours thinking of what they could do differently. This is their first mistake. In order to improve your dating success you have got to stop trying so hard.


When you try too hard to make a date successful you are going to come across as desperate. This is something that a lot of people end up doing because they are desperate, desperate to make the date work. If you simply relax a little and let things happen you will have a much better time.

Body Language

It is all about your body language. Whether you are a man or a woman it does not matter. It all comes down to how well you can read body language and how well you can give it back. If you are interested in a person then try not to close yourself off by crossing your arms or not making eye contact. Lean in when they talk and try to playfully touch them.

Self Esteem

Your self esteem is something that can really end up taking a beating whenever you are dating. A good way to improve your self esteem is to get some experience in the sack, then when you do go on a date you will know that you have the skills to back you up, swinging is a great way to do this, you get to meet open minded people and provided that you are careful you won’t catch the clap. If a person does not like you or stands you up you may feel like you are worthless. Not everybody is going to like everybody. Pick yourself up and dust yourself off and remember that it is them that will be missing out, not you.